20 Serect to being a likable person
20 secret to being a likable person
20 secret to being a likable person

If you want to be more likable then you must remember one thing … You cannot be liked by everyone.

You cannot make everyone like you!

So before we can go any further you need to accept this fact.

However, there are a few universal secrets to likability that can make you more liked by just about everyone

Here are my 20 Secret

If you want to be more likable then you must remember one thing … You cannot be liked by everyone.

You cannot make everyone like you!

So before we can go any further you need to accept this fact.

However, there are a few universal secrets to likability that can make you more liked by just about everyone

Here are my 20 Secret

  1. Look good

Face it. People are judgmental creatures. This isn’t about attraction as in, in the realm of dating and relationships.

This is about looking presentable so people would want to like you in the first place.

So do what it takes. Get new clothes. Trim your hair. Workout

2. SMELL GOOD

Nobody wants to be near a smelly piece of shit. Do what it takes to smell good. Go to a doctor if you have to. Don’t show up sweaty and smelling.

3. NEVER TRY TOO HARD

people can tell when you try too hard. That is a major turn off. People would think you’re clingy, desperate and annoying.

4. SMILE

Nobody likes an ugly pissed off face. People will judge that

5. SPEAK WELL

if you sound too unapproachable people may be turned off. If you speak too softly, it may come across as irritating. Learn to speak well to avoid people misunderstanding you

6. HAVE YOUR MANNERS

say your ‘Please’ and ‘Thank You’ and you’re good. This sounds basic, but not many people got it down pat.

7. Don’t lie

Nothing else needs to be said here, besides that people will find out the truth. You can’t get away with shit like that.

8. DON’T  BE THAT GUY WHO BORROWS MONEY FROM FRIENDS

money puts a strain in relationships. It is as simple as that. So don’t it at all.

9. DON’T CROSS BOUNDARIES AND HAVE PROPER ETIQUETTE

eg. Don’t hit on your friend’s girlfriend. Don’t hit on their ex.

10. SHOW UP ON TIME

I don’t know why people today think it’s okay to be late. That’s sad. Don’t buy into that shit.

Also Check out: how to develop self-discipline

11. NEVER ASK PERSONAL QUESTIONS

if you need to think about it before asking, then yes, you’re probably going to offend them. So don’t.

12. DON’T LAY BLAME ON YOUR FRIENDS FOR YOUR OWN SHIT

if you fuck up, man up and take responsibility for it. No one else out there can do it for you. If you try otherwise, you’re only showing you’re a weak ass bitch.

13. DON’T BRAG

Nobody wants to hear from a blowhard

14. BE NICE AND DO THE RIGHT THING

For whatever fuck ups you have in your life, at least show people deep down that you’re a good person. If you have it the other way round, you’re not likable.

15. DON’T BE LOUD

it is rude, detestable and barbaric

16. STOP BEING BUSY FOREVER

busy is bullshit. Everybody is busy today. If something or someone means something to you, you’d make that damn time. Not everyone will accept busy as a legit excuse forever.

17. KNOW THAT YOU CAN’T PLEASE EVERYBODY IN LIFE:

which pretty much covers never trying too hard. Don’t aim to be likable for assholes. If somebody wants to find a problem with you, they will.

You can’t stop that. So just go find better people who are on the same frequency as you and would accept you for who you are.

18. DON’T BE A PETTY LITTLE BITCH:

I mean, if you’re offended by EVERYTHING, nobody would want to be around you.

19. SHOW UP:

just do it. It makes a huge difference in everything you do

20. LISTEN:

you can’t be the one talking all the time and dominating the conversation. That’s called being self-centered.

20 Secret To Being A Likable & Amazing Person

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Hey There! I'm Divine Odjame, a Blogger, An Entrepreneur, a Web Developer, based in Nigeria.

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